Beliefs, religions and judgments are a reality in our world that causes conflicts amongst different groups. Personally I am raised as a catholic but I have also been taught about other religions throughout the world. Groups of individuals tend to stick together when they share common beliefs and judge every other belief that does not match their own. Different beliefs, and religions is a part of being a human being, a part of finding out who we are as individuals. I react strongly to when individuals are so narrow minded and judgmental to any other form of belief. I remember when I was talking to a friend and I started expressing some of my beliefs to her. She looked at me like I was mental and told me that I was wrong to believe such thoughts and how much she could not understand why I felt this way. Honestly beliefs are personal and I really try to be open minded and understanding to individuals who express different beliefs from mine.
Conflict based on different beliefs is portrayed in the story Pharisees and Jesus. The Pharisees were a Jewish group that had strong beliefs and any individual who did not follow the Pharisees rules were considered unworthy. Jesus considered every human being equal and welcomed even the individuals considered unworthy in the Pharisees eyes. In this story conflict would have occurred between Jesus and the Pharisees because of their different views on faith. Jesus was an extraordinary man who is a major role model in my life today. Jesus did not judge others based on their religions or whether they followed the rules of his faith. The Pharisees did not like the fact that Jesus welcomed the unworthy and unclean individuals, which then caused tension and conflict between them and Jesus.
When I read stories like the Pharisees and Jesus I try and consider what I would do in that situation. I cannot actually know for a fact what I would do in these situations but I hope I would be like Jesus. Beliefs and religions do distinguish human beings as specific different individuals but that does not make any individual or belief better then the other. Jesus loved the Pharisees but he also loved those who were considered unworthy to the Pharisees. This story is as simple as comparing to high school. There are cliques and groups throughout high school and individuals ignore and are rude to those who are not in their clique. Human beings are created equal and we should help others whether they have the same beliefs and values as us or not.
As I have grown up and matured there have been questions that have answers that vary or do not exist. I have been taught ever since birth that God is the only one that can help me understand myself. God created every individual and made each one of us unique and special. The flaws that humans see in themselves and in others disappear in the eyes of God. I know personally that humans get ideas of how to look, act, and live our lives. Weaknesses and flaws are frowned upon and focused on even though they are so insignificant. In God’s eyes we are all perfect even when we make mistakes and may choose the wrong paths.
As an individual when I look at myself I see my looks, interests, and achievements. I am passionate about music, I played piano for 10 years, have been dancing for 8 years, love singing and just listening to music. Music is a major part of who I am as an individual. I have other interests that I could list for hours but when I look at my passions and myself I automatically think of music. When my uncle died I didn’t want to socialize or do much. I spent hours and hours lying in my bed listening to music because music helped me personally deal with his death. Grief is a hard fact in life and music was my relief from reality. Music is extremely powerful for me and is what I turn to when I am angry, upset, stressed, or just really happy. When I look at myself as an individual I see my passions and my achievements. I have achieved honors in all my classes, have received dance awards and my grade 6 royal conservatory and grade 1 theory. These are only a short list of achievements that I am proud of in my life. I have always been told to be the best individual possible and when I look at myself I want to look at the positive parts of my life and hope that God also sees those positive.
When I look at myself I also see my flaws and weaknesses. When I look in the mirror I not only see my physical flaws but my weakness as a human being. I personally find myself judging and comparing myself to others on their appearances and attitudes before I get to know them. Appearances are the smallest part of a human being but I always find myself focusing on appearances. I am really trying to get to know individuals personally and stop judging and comparing. I cannot change the way I look and neither can any others so my goal right now is to change that weakness in my life. Comparing myself to others is just as bad as judging others. I always find myself thinking thoughts like they are prettier then me, I’m not good enough or they are so much smarter. I understand that thoughts of comparison are useless and are a huge weakness of mine. Weaknesses and flaws are not hard to find when I analyze myself but I am trying to change and become the individual my family, friends and God want me to be.
Throughout my life I have gotten insults, advice, and compliments. Individuals tend to not listen to what others have to say because it causes the feeling of insecurity or confusion. The way I look at myself is probably completely different from how my family, friends and God see me. Advice, insults and compliments I have decided to take into consideration for my life. How others see me may help me change into a better person. I know I overlook factors in my life and personality and want to be told. One time I called my sister a name that I did not think to be offensive but she told me how much it hurt her feelings. If she hadn’t have told me then I may not have every realized the pain I was inflicting. As human beings we need to help each other grow as individuals and become the human beings that God created.
I know I have thousands of strengths and weaknesses that I personally can only control. By using my feelings, others and God I really feel as if I can grow up into the person I can only dream of becoming. I am still maturing and finding out who I am but I now that by finding my strengths and weakness I can change what I dislike. God will always love every human being on this planet. To me I do not think that God cares about our strengths and weakness but cares about how we use those strengths and weakness to become the person he created.