God made humans to have friendship and love, we are made for relationships. What are the things we need in order to have real friendships or community? Friendship and community require two things, availability, and vulnerability. Availability is making sacrifices so you can be there whether you are needed or not, just being available. The willingness to make connections is what gives people availability. To be available to others you first must have are carefree timelessness for yourself. When you are vulnerable you have to put your walls and barriers down and be honest. Allow people to see who you actually are. Trust that everything will be ok if you let others into your life. In closing to make real friends you have to be open and available with yourself so you can be open and available with others.