Communicate more.make the effort to try and experience other people’s experience as well. Human beings are social animals so talking and communication is key to keeping a relationship. The more you talk the you can understand each other. The ability to empathise is hard wired into our brain. The part of the brain is called the right Supramarginal Gyrus. It helps to distinguish our own emotional state from another person, and is a key role in our ability to observe and assess what other people are experiencing. Be observant of others. We tend to spend a lot of time on our phones taking the time to look around and observe others is a good step forward in developing your empathy. Use active listening. Slow down and think about what your gonna reply to someone. Consider the other person’s statement.